Managing Clients’ Anxiety (starts at 23.15 mins)
The current situation may be magnifying prior anxiety for clients; it is a time when perhaps all of us feel heightened anxiety.
In addition to all the previous triggers for this, spending a lot of time in the home with others can in itself lead to other tensions. And there is an existential fear for all of us, wondering whether we will catch this virus ourselves – and, if we do, what will happen to us.
Indeed, while we would normally avoid counselling others who are presenting with issues that we are going through ourselves at the same time, we don’t have this choice currently: parallel process is everywhere.
Given this fact, it is important for us as counsellors to be congruent with our thoughts and feelings, modelling for our clients the skill of being authentic, while also working hard to maintain own stability.
Self-care is vital in this, using supervision, taking regular breaks, peer networking (ensuring client confidentiality is not broken) and journaling.
Do ensure too that you have planned ahead professionally for how clients will be contacted if you begin to show symptoms.
Rory predicts that once the virus situation has settled down, counsellors may well see an increase in demand for their services, in particular in relation to loss/bereavement, post-traumatic stress and life-limiting health conditions.