251 – Difference between PTSD and Complex PTSD
The Four Pillars of Gestalt Therapy – Talking about Sexual Intimacy in Therapy
In Episode 251 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week’s three topics:
- Firstly in ‘Theory in Practice’ we look at the four pillars of Gestalt therapy.
- Then in ‘Practice Today’ Rory and Ken will discuss sexual intimacy.
- Lastly in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Lou Lebentz on the difference between PTSD and complex PTSD (CPTSD).
The Four Pillars of Gestalt Therapy [starts at 02:45 mins]
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First up this week, listen as Rory and Ken take us through the four pillars of Gestalt therapy:
- Phenomenology – how the individual views their world:
- A client’s view may be very different to your own and you may even disagree.
- Understand the reasons behind their views.
- Meet the client where they are.
- Through discussion, the client may change their view after looking into it further.
- The dialogical relationship – the relationship between therapist and client.
- There needs to be dialogue between you as the therapist and them as the client.
- Be empathetic, show your humanity and allow the client to engage with that.
- The client should perceive you as someone who is working hard to try and understand their world view.
- Field theory – what’s going on around the client?
- Their life and day-to-day will effect how they are with you.
- Things happening both inside and outside of the therapy room.
- This applies to both you and the client.
- Experimentation – clients encouraged to do experiments.
- This is something not seen in person-centered therapy.
- Experimentations such as empty chair –allows the client to speak the unspoken.
- It can help the client have internal contact with the disconnected parts of themselves.
- Doing things such as writing a letter and burning it if they find verbal communication uncomfortable.
- Gestalt therapy is all about connecting emotionally and physically with ourselves.
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Talking about Sexual Intimacy in Therapy [starts at 22:37 mins]
Speaking about sexual intimacy may feel uncomfortable for some, but it is a large part of an individual’s life and should be welcomed in the therapy room.
The main points of this discussion include:
- If you as the therapist are reluctant, shy or worried about this topic, the client can’t go there with you – this means an important part of the client’s reality is shut off.
- Sexual intimacy and activity impacts a client’s whole life – sometimes clients will want to talk about it and that takes courage.
- Try considering how you would feel sharing this information with a professional, and how you would want them to approach that with you.
- You need to warmly welcome this part of your client.
- Become comfortable with the aspects of this discussion.
- Show the client the door is open, that it’s okay.
- If you're struggling to engage with this subject, visit supervision and explore why that might be.
- The key things to take away are:
- Welcome the topic.
- Look for a framework, do some CPD, try talking about sexual intimacy.
- Desensitize giggles, blushes and cringes – understand where your hidden prejudices lie.
- Read up on sexual health and consider speaking about this with your client – especially with young people.
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Difference between PTSD and Complex PTSD [starts at 39:04 mins]
In this week’s ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Lou Lebentz on the difference between PTSD and complex PTSD (CPTSD).
- PTSD is often the result of a singular traumatic event e.g. a car crash, a natural disaster. Its difference to complex PTSD is CPTSD refers to someone who has experienced a series of traumas.
- They usually suffer from difficulty with emotional self-regulation.
- They may have a negative view of self: feelings of shame, guilt, feeling unworthy.
- There is an interpersonal disturbance.
- Mistrust of others, self-blame.
- CPTSD is often rooted in childhood.
- As a therapist you provide co-regulation – an external scaffold.
- All feelings are accepted in the therapy room – help the client learn to manage and regulate these feelings.
- Having your own therapy will be something to look into.
- EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) presents itself a lot in trauma.
- You may take a body-led and body-based approach.
- Stay with the feeling of the client – don’t move over it or dismiss it.
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The Four Pillars of Gestalt Therapy
Links and Resources
Advanced Certificate in Counselling Supervision
Basic Counselling Skills: A Student Guide
Counselling Theory in Practice: A Student Guide
Online and Telephone Counselling: A Practitioner’s Guide