We have looked at paraphrasing and 'reflecting back' skills. Summaries are longer paraphrases.
They condense or crystallise the essence of what the client is saying and feeling.

Summaries usually cover a longer time period than a paraphrase Where reflecting back" wheras paraphrasing can be used after a few sentences.

Asummary may be used after some time : perhaps half-way through a counselling session, or near the end of a counselling session.
The summary 'sums up' the main themes that are emerging.

Summaries are useful:

  • To clarify emotions for both the helper/counsellor and the client.
  • To review the work done so far, and to take stock.
  • To bring a session to a close, by drawing together the main threads of the discussion.
  • A summary may be used to begin a subsequent session, if appropriate.
  • To start the process of focusing and prioritising 'scattered' thoughts and feelings
  • To move the counselling process forward.

How do you feel when someone has clearly listened and understood you ?

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