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210 – Erotic Transference in Therapy

210 – Erotic Transference in Therapy Attending in Counselling – Crying with Your Client In Episode 210 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week’s three topics: In this episode’s ‘Counselling Foundations’, we look at attending when a client first arrives. Next in ‘Focus on Self’, Rory and […]

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053 – Writing a Journal – Self-Object Transference – Collective Grief

053 – Writing a Journal – Self-Object Transference – Collective Grief In episode 53 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken and Rory provide tips on journal-writing. ‘Theory with Rory’ looks at self-object and self-object transference (from the self-psychology movement). Finally, the presenters discuss the phenomenon of collective grief. Writing a Journal (starts at 2.42 mins)

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Counselling Tutor Podcast 053 – Writing a Journal – Self-Object Transference – Collective Grief

Transference and Countertransference

Transference is subconsciously associating a person in the present with a past relationship. For example, you meet a new client who reminds you of a former lover. Countertransference is responding to them with all the thoughts and feelings attached to that past relationship. Definition Tudor and Merry (2006: 143) define ‘transference’ as ‘the displacement of

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Transference and Countertransference in Counselling

037 – Transference and Countertransference – Unconditional Positive Regard – Your Research Project

037 – Transference and Countertransference – Unconditional Positive Regard – Your Research Project   In episode 37 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly talk about transference in the counselling room. ‘Theory with Rory’ examines unconditional positive regard (UPR). Finally, the presenters talk about doing your research project. Transference and Countertransference (starts

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021 Questions from Clients – Erotic or Eroticised Transference

Questions from Clients – Erotic/Eroticised Transference – Writing Your Elevator Pitch – Self-Care in Practice In episode 21 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly talk about what to do when a client asks us a question. ‘Theory with Rory’ looks at erotic and eroticised transference, while ‘Person-Centred Business’ explains how to

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003 – Counselling ‘Volume’ – Transference & Countertransference – Paraphrasing – UPR

In this third episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes explore how to turn down our counselling ‘volume’. ‘Theory with Rory’ looks at transference and countertransference; and in the skills section, Ken examines paraphrasing. In a new slot, ‘Ask Ken and Rory’, the presenters look at the challenge of showing unconditional positive regard

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Vicarious Trauma

Vicarious Trauma: How to Identify and Prevent It in Therapy Learning Outcomes Introduction Vicarious trauma is a significant concern for professionals working in close contact with traumatised individuals. Indeed, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (APA, 2013, p. 271) includes professionals working with trauma in its list of people who might develop post-traumatic

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302 – Shame in Supervision

302 – Shame in Supervision Pre-Trial Therapy Considerations – Managing Next-Level Overwhelm in Your Counselling Training In Episode 302 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at reducing shame within supervision. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory

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293 – EAP Counselling

293 – EAP Counselling Why Hire an Accountant – How to Handle Negative Feedback In Episode 293 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly discuss this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we take a deep dive into Employment Assistant Programs or EAP counselling. Then in ‘Practice Matters’,

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CT-Podcast-Ep293 featured image - Topics Discussed: EAP Counselling Pros and Cons – Why Hire an Accountant – How to Handle Negative Feedback